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What is an addiction?
All addictions are characterized by the same criteria:
- A compulsion to continue or repeat the behaviour
- Loss of control
- Continued involvement (that is use of a substance or pursuit of the event) in spite of adverse consequences
Patterns of addictions may vary but the underlying process remains the same
It is possible to become addicted to almost any invertible substance or mood altering event ( e.g. work, money, alcohol, pills, computers, exercise, religion, sports, food, relationships, games or high risk behaviour, etc.)
Some substances can be more addictive than others simply due to the fact many alter the chemistry of the person who uses them. Cravings are created and this can quickly lead to dependence
Regardless of whether we become ‘hooked’ physically or psychologically, all these things can be used compulsively, engaging our minds and our bodies which are inseparable
Any repeated use of any substance or event to numb pain or enhance pleasure and/or help us dissociate or escape has the potential to become an addiction
When we discover something that either creates this feeling of wholeness or allows us to feel whole, it often takes on a life of it’s own
Addicts often feel that their addiction is their best friend and deserves their loyalty and protection. This attitude can create a series of rationalizations and manipulations, denial, deception and lies. This type of behaviour only succeeds in deepening their sense of shame which usually initiated the development of the addiction in the first place.
Risk Factors
- alcoholism, drug abuse or problem gambling in your family
- abuse, rejection, criticism or neglect by a parent
- if you family thought status and possessions were really important
- early exposure to gambling
- emotional or problems with your behavior when you were younger which caused you to see a counsellor or a doctor
- experiences in childhood and early adolescence that convince these persons that they are inferior, unwanted and unneeded
- poor coping skills
- loss (eg., separation, divorce, death of a parent, physical ore sexual abuse)
Things that can Trigger the Development of an Addiction:
- Feelings of inadequacy
- Trauma
- Eating or sleeping disturbances
- Grief or loss
- Abandonment issues
- Learning or memory difficulties
- Emotional Problems
- Chronic illness
- Physical handicap
- Family problems
- Parent - child conflict
- Low self esteem
- Family history of alcohol and drug problems
Warning Signs
- changes in ‘normal’ activities
- changes in physical appearance
- changes in eating and sleeping
- changes in friends
- changes in behaviour
- physical evidence
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